Initiator: Celine
Purpose: find out about relationship, if they would continue or drop it. See if Jess was as interested in the rel. as she was.

Needs:
Love/affection: desires companionship, reciprocity, romance. Has no intimate/love rel.

Self-esteem: wants to make sure she’s not foolish or not attractive, loveable, desirable, interesting to Jess.

Knowledge
Knows	Doesn't know
J leaving next day	extent of J’s feelings or desire for her
J didn’t think LD rel’s worked	future of rel/if she’ll see him again or continue relationship
She wants to continue relationship.

Position:
If strong feelings/good relationship then commit/continue.
If uncertain then seek info.
If she discloses then she’s open to rejection.
If risk in revealing feelings then don’t disclose
If you love someone (J) then seek to continue/commit/reciprocation

Social/Cultural
Values: Honesty, meaningful/thoughful conversation, companionship (Others: openness, sincerity, depth, profundity, friendship, pleasure, enjoyment, spontaneity, risk, adventure)
Role: single woman, "girlfriend," companion
Relational status: symmetrical. Equal in relation to each other. No one overtly dominates.

Comm. Skills
Good: Demonstrated role-taking, listening, clear verbals, not vague with language, shows regard and respect.
Bad: Misses key NVs needed to decode accurately, doesn’t metacommunicate

Personas:
Self: Interesting/attractive, independent, mature, strong, rational, romantic, honest, understanding, impulsive, adventurous
Other: Attractive, impulsive, confident, trustworthy, sensitive, respectful, intelligent, independent, assertive, intense, immature
Other of self: Attractive, trustworthy, independent, open, honest, serious, fun-loving, vulnerable, impulsive, adventurous, naïve, irrational, trusting, romantic

Other Participant: Jess
Purpose: find out about relationship, if they would continue or drop it. See if feelings for each other and relationship matched.

Needs:
Belonging/love: alone, had bad rel, needs love
Uncertainty/Avoid appearing foolish: he wants to know about rel too, doesn’t want to be first to disclose
Self-esteem: just dumped, needs affirmation. Wants to "get the girl"

Knowledge: see Celine. Knowledge matches up with her’s - doesn’t know extent of her feelings, knows he’s leaving, etc.

Position:
If using logic, then don’t see each other again.
If strong feelings, then commit.
If uncertain, avoid topic/agree with other.
Others: see Celine

Social/Culture:
Values: deep conversation, intelligence/rationality, companionship, adventure (others: pleasure, communication, inner beauty, aesthetics, culture, differences)
Role: Single man, ex-boyfriend, comanion, foreigner/traveler/non-native (others: intiator of risk/adventure)
Status: Symmetrical, equal status

Comm. Skills:
Doesn’t read NVs well or respond to feedback, apprehensive, won’t self-disclose, doesn’t seek clarity. (Others: doesn’t decode/encode well, verbal disfluency, good listener, paraphrases, interrupts)

Personas:
Self:Attractive, logical, vulnerable, apprehensive/accommodating, independent, , logical, intelligent (others: charming [sly?], confident, passionate, easy-going)
Other: Vulnerable/naïve, uncommitted, assertive (others: attractive, intelligent, adventurous, interesting/intriguing, mysterious, mature, sensitive, worldly, cultured, romantic (too much)
Other of self: open/honest/sincere, romantic, unsophisticated, considerate (others: attractive, uncultured, goofy, immature, impulsive, childish, adventurous)